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The Three Basic Truths:Impermanence, Suffering, and No-Self

Jack Kornfield
Jack Kornfield
Jun 3, 2022
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Buddhist monasteries teach that all phenomena share three marks: anicca (impermanence), dukkha (unsatisfactory nature), and anatta (no-self or emptiness). Rather than abstract philosophy, these are invitations to directly perceive reality as it is. The more clearly you see that everything is impermanent and selfless, the less you cling to experiences as "I" or "mine," and the suffering that comes from attachment naturally dissolves. Through quiet mindfulness, you learn to rest in pure awareness itself—what some teachers call "the original mind" or "the one who knows"—and recognize that awakening is not distant but always here and now.

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What Are the Three Marks of Existence?

When practitioners first enter Buddhist monasteries in Thailand and Burma, they encounter a core teaching repeated constantly: anicca (impermanence), dukkha (often translated as suffering or unsatisfactory nature), and anatta (no-self or emptiness). These are not abstract doctrines or beliefs to accept on faith. Rather, they are invitations to directly see the way reality actually operates—to see "with the eyes of wisdom," as the teaching puts it. The reason monasteries emphasize these truths over and over is pragmatic: if you genuinely see these characteristics in your own direct experience, liberation follows naturally.

Consider impermanence first. Superficially, we know that things change—the stock market fluctuates, moon phases cycle, seasons pass. But insight into anicca goes deeper. It asks you to feel and know, moment by moment, that nothing remains solid or static. In Buddhist texts, this is captured in the phrase "karma changes like the swish of a horse's tail." In an instant, circumstances that seemed stable—a job, a relationship, a sense of security—can shift entirely. An accident, a diagnosis, an unexpected opportunity, a pandemic: suddenly everything turns topsy-turvy. Once you truly sense this, a kind of humility arises. Empires rise and fall (as Chief Seattle observed, "tribe follows tribe and nation follows nation"). Even the most terrible wars, however catastrophic, eventually end. Impermanence is not news; it is the constant condition of existence.

This truth has profound psychological implications. A classroom demonstration from psychology shows this vividly: when students place one hand in ice water and another in hot water, then immerse both in room-temperature water, their perceptions contradict each other. The hand that was cold perceives the neutral water as hot; the hand that was hot perceives it as cold. We become deeply attached to our perceptions, yet they are unreliable, shaped by context and conditioning. The Buddha observed that "people who cling to views go about the world annoying others." Our views feel solid, certain, true—until they shift.

How Does Everything Arise from the Five Rivers?

Buddhist psychology describes human experience as five aggregates or, as some teachers prefer to translate it, "five rivers": a river of physical sensation and bodily experience, a river of feelings (pleasant, unpleasant, neutral), a river of perceptions and interpretations, a river of thoughts and mental formations, and a river of consciousness itself. Each of these is constantly flowing and changing. When you sit in meditation and truly pay attention, nothing stays the same. Emotions arise and pass. Thoughts appear and dissolve. Sensations shift. The sense of a solid, unchanging "self" observing all this gradually dissolves under clear seeing. This is what anatta—no-self or emptiness—points to.

Why Does Clinging to the Impermanent Create Suffering?

The second mark, dukkha, is often mistranslated as "suffering," which can mislead practitioners into thinking Buddhism is pessimistic. A more nuanced translation is "unsatisfactory nature." The teaching is this: because everything is impermanent, the more you cling and hold on, the more you suffer. Clinging to what is changing is called "rope burn"—the friction of trying to grasp what cannot be grasped. A story illustrates this: two men took a road trip to the largest bonsai tree garden in North America, excited to see the ancient, carefully cultivated specimens. One man became deeply attached to a particular tree, returning to it repeatedly, trying to possess the experience. His partner, meanwhile, let himself simply be present with each tree without grasping. Their different relationships to the same experience created entirely different outcomes. The one who clung suffered when the visit ended; the other could simply appreciate and release.

The Buddha taught that suffering arises from the gap between what we want reality to be and what it actually is. We pursue pleasure and try to avoid pain. We seek gain and resist loss. This is the basic pattern of dukkha, and it operates whether we are consciously aware of it or not. The teaching is not that life should be painless—pain is part of embodied existence—but that the additional layer of suffering comes from our resistance to and clinging to experience.

What Is Anatta, and How Does It Free Us?

Anatta (no-self) is perhaps the most subtle and liberating of the three marks. It does not deny that we function as persons, make choices, and have continuity of memory. Rather, it points to the absence of a fixed, unchanging essence or self at the core of experience. When you examine your direct experience closely, you cannot find a solid, permanent observer standing apart from the changing five rivers. What you find instead is awareness itself—consciousness appearing moment by moment without a fixed "I" behind it.

This teaching becomes powerfully practical when integrated with actual experience. You may be caught in anger, upset by a situation, or identified with a problem. But if you pause, step back, and rest in pure awareness, you realize that the experience is arising within consciousness, and you are not identical with it. The emotion is dukkha (unsatisfactory), anicca (impermanent), and anatta (without a self that owns it). You can let it go. You can release the whole sense of identification. And in that releasing, something shifts. The conditioned world of constant change and dissatisfaction has nothing to do with your true nature. The authentic refuge is pure awareness itself.

How Does Truth Liberate Rather Than Effort?

Jiddu Krishnamurti, a great sage quoted in Buddhist circles, said: "It is the truth that liberates, and not your efforts to be free." This is a crucial distinction. The path is not about straining to become something you are not, or desperately trying to achieve liberation. Rather, it is about seeing clearly. When you truly perceive impermanence, unsatisfactory nature, and no-self, attachment and identification naturally loosen. The suffering that arises from clinging simply finds less fuel. You still function in the world, but the quality of your presence changes because you are no longer bound by the illusion of a solid self trying to control or possess experience.

What Role Does Mindfulness Play in Seeing These Truths?

The path begins with quieting the mind through mindfulness and meditation. Without some mental calm and clarity, the constant reactivity of the mind obscures direct seeing. As the mind settles, you develop the capacity to simply observe experience as it arises and passes. Instead of being swept up in thought and emotion, you can notice them. This is where the three marks become not intellectual understanding but felt knowledge. You see a thought arise and dissolve. You watch an emotion appear and fade. You notice the body's sensations constantly shifting. Over time, the direct knowing of impermanence, unsatisfactory nature, and no-self deepens. And as it does, a natural detachment arises—not cold or rejecting, but clear and peaceful.

How Does Pure Awareness Relate to the Conditioned World?

Ajahn Chah, a great Thai Buddhist teacher, spoke of pure awareness as "the original mind" or "the one who knows"—consciousness itself, prior to the content of experience. The invitation is to rest here, to shift your sense of identity from the contents of mind (thoughts, feelings, sensations, experiences) to the awareness that knows all of it. This is not dissociation or escape from the world. You remain engaged with life and relationships. But you are no longer identified with the changing conditions as though they were your true nature. The conditioned world—with its anicca, dukkha, and anatta—rolls on. But you have found your ground in what is unconditional, what does not change, what is not bound by identification.

Where to Go from Here

The practice is simple but requires patience and direct engagement. Begin with regular meditation practice, even brief periods, to settle the mind and develop mindfulness. In your daily life, practice observing the three marks: notice impermanence, the way things constantly change; notice the tension and friction that comes from clinging to what is impermanent; notice the absence of a solid, unchanging self at the center of your experience. These are not beliefs to adopt but invitations to look and see for yourself. As your seeing deepens, you discover that you can be in the midst of an upset, a problem, or a strong emotion and still step back into pure awareness. You learn to rest in the knowing itself. And as this becomes more natural, your life is transformed not because you become someone else, but because you stop mistaking the changing conditions for who you truly are. Awakening is always here and now, the Buddha taught. It requires only that you turn your attention to what is already the case: the silence and awareness in which all experience appears and passes.

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[0:02] so what i'd like to talk about tonight

[0:04] and we'll see how it goes um i'd like to

[0:07] talk about

[0:08] the most basic truths in buddhist

[0:10] teaching

[0:12] and i've come to it

[0:13] in part because in these last months

[0:16] i've been talking about the war in

[0:18] ukraine and the pandemic and the

[0:20] collective anxiety and all these other

[0:22] things

[0:25] and it feels like it's time to come back

[0:28] to the basics

[0:30] i'll start

[0:32] with a poem

[0:34] that answers a kind of question for us

[0:36] as human beings human incarnation

[0:40] what kind of world did we incarnate into

[0:45] so this is a poem from

[0:47] bridget lowry that i often read

[0:52] in the strange early morning half-light

[0:55] we set

[0:57] it is by the way a meditation poem

[1:00] in the cloudiness of our questioning we

[1:02] sit

[1:04] in our madness and our clarity we sit

[1:08] in the midst of too much to do we said

[1:12] in the warm arms of our shared sorrow we

[1:15] set

[1:17] in community

[1:18] and in loneliness we said

[1:21] in sweet exhaustion we sit

[1:24] in the blazing energy of being alive we

[1:27] sit

[1:28] here with the singing of the

[1:30] coyotes and the crickets

[1:33] here with each electric bird song

[1:37] here with the rippling of breezes and

[1:40] the great trees and the dry grasses

[1:44] here with the cobwebs and the clouds

[1:48] and the teeming masses

[1:52] and the dusty road upon us

[1:55] us in the sound and the sound in us

[1:59] us in the world

[2:01] and the world in us

[2:06] so here we are with this human

[2:08] incarnation

[2:10] given a human life

[2:13] and of course at this time

[2:16] maybe in all times but right now there

[2:18] are things that are quite difficult

[2:20] especially if you're here where i am in

[2:22] north america

[2:23] there's the growing fire season and then

[2:26] we look at the images in the news and

[2:28] there's

[2:29] floods and

[2:31] refugees and climate change and of

[2:33] course the wars ukraine and myanmar and

[2:37] libya and so many other places

[2:40] so there's all those kind of

[2:42] difficult images

[2:45] and

[2:46] troubles of this human realm that we're

[2:48] born into

[2:50] and then last night there was the

[2:52] eclipse the blood red moon

[2:55] really kind of magic to watch the

[2:57] eclipse because you could see the shadow

[2:59] of our sphere moving across the face of

[3:02] the moon

[3:04] and at least in north america there's

[3:06] spring and blossoms

[3:10] you know it's the plowing season in some

[3:13] places

[3:15] maybe that would be the beginning of the

[3:16] rainy season for others and

[3:19] there is in california this year a

[3:22] renewed migration of monarch butterflies

[3:24] that not so many had been seen for a

[3:27] long time

[3:30] so there's the

[3:31] troubles

[3:33] and there's the springtime and the music

[3:36] of the spheres

[3:38] and when i was first taught in the

[3:40] monasteries in thailand and burma and so

[3:43] forth

[3:45] the key to the basic natures of life

[3:48] basic nature of life

[3:50] was repeated over and over again

[3:53] everything is a nietzsche or impermanent

[3:57] look at it

[3:58] everything is dukkha

[4:00] which means

[4:02] unsatisfactory

[4:04] and everything is anata anicha duken

[4:07] anata means

[4:09] emptiness selflessness and so forth and

[4:11] we'll talk about all of them

[4:14] and the reason that these were repeated

[4:16] over and over

[4:17] is they were saying

[4:19] if you see these you see with the eyes

[4:22] of wisdom

[4:24] so zen masters sing-son sansine korean

[4:27] zen master with whom i studied he said

[4:30] once a great man

[4:32] sat under the bodhi tree

[4:34] saw the morning star

[4:37] and gained enlightenment

[4:39] he saw

[4:41] the sky was blue

[4:43] the earth was brown

[4:46] and all things were rising and passing

[4:49] things were just as they are

[4:51] and then

[4:53] he really

[4:55] knew the nature of things and his

[4:57] enlightenment

[4:58] was complete

[5:01] he saw things the way they are

[5:04] arising and passing blue sky brown earth

[5:09] or krishnamurti the great sage said

[5:12] it is the truth that liberates

[5:16] and not your efforts to be free

[5:20] seeing the way things are

[5:24] and of course to survive because we have

[5:26] this very complex human brain

[5:29] the tre the brain besides seeing the way

[5:31] things are here in the present also

[5:34] tries to

[5:35] anticipate

[5:37] keep you safe and fix and stabilize and

[5:39] imagine

[5:41] so the first of these basic truths

[5:44] is a nietzsche impermanence

[5:47] and you say well

[5:48] what's the big deal

[5:50] of course things change

[5:52] why is it why is this news

[5:55] you know

[5:57] the stock market's gone down then it

[5:58] will go up sometime it's just what

[6:00] things do

[6:01] the phases of the moon change

[6:05] but there's something deeper

[6:08] to feel and know

[6:10] and the point of it is seeing with the

[6:12] eyes of wisdom it brings a kind of

[6:14] liberation

[6:19] here's a phrase from the texts

[6:22] karma changes or karma can change

[6:26] like the swish of a horse's tail

[6:30] that is at one time everything seems

[6:32] hunky-dory and fine and going along

[6:36] and then

[6:37] in a moment

[6:39] an accident

[6:40] or a diagnosis

[6:43] you know or an opportunity or an

[6:45] asteroid or who knows what a pandemic

[6:48] and everything gets turned topsy turvy

[6:51] karma can change like the swish

[6:53] of a horse's tail and then all of a

[6:56] sudden you go oh yeah whoops and echa

[6:59] things are not as stable as we thought

[7:04] not so solid and we're watching the

[7:06] contest of empires the russian empire

[7:09] trying to get back you know and the

[7:11] chinese empire trying to get

[7:13] big the way it was a thousand years ago

[7:16] or something in the u.s empire

[7:18] what did chief seattle say

[7:22] tribe follows tribe and nation follows

[7:25] nation

[7:27] even empires come and go

[7:31] and wars arise for time

[7:34] and then they end

[7:36] there's always an end to a war even

[7:37] however horrific and terrible and sad it

[7:40] is

[7:41] then it ends

[7:44] then of course there might be a new war

[7:45] and a new conflict

[7:48] this is a nietzsche it's where we live

[7:51] where you live where i live

[7:55] now in psychology 101 there's an

[7:57] experiment that's often done

[8:01] in which three buckets of water are

[8:03] placed in the front of the room

[8:06] one bucket has hot water quite hot one

[8:09] bucket has room temperature and one

[8:11] bucket has ice water with ice cubes in

[8:13] it

[8:15] and the unsuspecting

[8:17] student who volunteers to come up for

[8:19] the psychological experiment

[8:21] is invited to take

[8:23] two hands and place one in the bucket of

[8:26] ice water and one in the bucket of quite

[8:28] hot water and see how long they can

[8:30] stand it having their hands in there

[8:32] usually 30 seconds or a minute or

[8:34] whatever it's not that easy

[8:37] then the next instruction when they take

[8:39] their hands out is to put them in the

[8:41] bucket of room temperature water

[8:44] and let them touch each other

[8:47] and in that moment there's this funny

[8:49] expression that comes over the face of

[8:51] the psychology student

[8:53] because to one hand

[8:56] the water feels really cold that water

[8:59] that and that was in the hot water

[9:01] and to the other hand touching it

[9:03] the water feels really hot the hand that

[9:05] had been in the ice water and their

[9:07] perceptions are

[9:09] warped somehow like which perception

[9:12] can i trust

[9:16] you know my dear friends

[9:18] and i have to include myself in this

[9:20] we get

[9:21] pretty attached to our perceptions of

[9:24] things

[9:26] and yet they're not really

[9:29] quite certain are they

[9:32] the buddha said at one point people who

[9:34] cling to views

[9:37] views people who cling to views the wise

[9:40] ones he said don't cling to views

[9:43] but people who cling to views

[9:45] go about the world annoying others

[9:49] that's sort of one of the passages that

[9:50] i think is a little bit of humor from

[9:52] the buddha

[9:53] or maybe he was just experiencing that

[9:58] so what changes our perceptions you know

[10:00] you're a libertarian or a republican or

[10:03] a democrat or a whatever that certain

[10:05] portion of your life and then it might

[10:07] change

[10:09] your views change what else changes

[10:13] it's said in the buddhist text that who

[10:15] we are

[10:16] are the five skandas sometimes

[10:18] translated as the five aggregates

[10:21] or the five rivers is how i like to

[10:24] translate it a river of physical

[10:26] experience and sensations of the body

[10:29] a river of

[10:31] feelings a river of perceptions and

[10:35] views a river of ma of

[10:37] of perceptions and thoughts a river of

[10:40] thoughts

[10:41] and images

[10:43] [Music]

[10:44] and a river of consciousness

[10:47] and they're always changing

[10:52] you could see it when you're sad in

[10:53] meditation

[10:55] nothing stayed the same for a moment as

[10:57] you paid attention

[11:03] now here's why anita is important to

[11:06] understand

[11:09] because everything is changing

[11:13] the more you cling and hold on

[11:16] the more you suffer

[11:19] holding on is called rope burn

[11:22] you try to hold on to things and they're

[11:24] changing

[11:25] whether it's the views or the world or

[11:27] the empires or your emotions

[11:31] i remember this story of

[11:34] a couple these two men who got married

[11:36] and part of their celebration in their

[11:38] life

[11:39] was to take a road trip to montreal to

[11:41] the biggest bonsai tree garden in north

[11:43] america amazing bonsais imported from

[11:47] japan and china and grown there

[11:50] and so they got in the car and they

[11:51] drove a long way up to into canada from

[11:54] where they lived in new england

[11:57] and they got there one of the guys had

[11:59] arranged the trip and was really happy

[12:01] because he loved bonsai they both did

[12:04] and they could

[12:05] and they got to this gates of this huge

[12:08] garden and it was padlocked shot and

[12:10] this was before the pandemic

[12:12] sorry we're closed on whatever it is

[12:15] tuesday wednesday and thursday we're

[12:17] open these days of the week

[12:19] and

[12:21] his partner looked at him and said

[12:23] didn't you check on this and got all

[12:25] upset and frustrated we drove all the

[12:27] way here

[12:29] and the guy who'd

[12:33] done the driving and

[12:35] brought them there

[12:37] just got quiet and said let's see

[12:40] let's take a little walk here maybe we

[12:42] can figure something out what's he going

[12:45] to figure out he's going to call

[12:46] somebody is there a way to get in can

[12:48] they open it

[12:50] and he just started walking along the

[12:53] huge this is a giant botanical garden

[12:55] along the gate and along the front wall

[12:58] high wall you could see the beautiful

[13:00] fruit trees and amazing trees inside

[13:02] you walked and walked just trying to get

[13:04] quiet figure out what should we do next

[13:07] and went around the corner at the end of

[13:09] that long front

[13:11] part of the garden and started to walk

[13:13] further

[13:14] and now all of a sudden

[13:16] to his and their surprise the wall

[13:18] stopped

[13:20] it was a facade on the roadside of the

[13:22] garden

[13:24] but as they walked along the side

[13:27] there was no wall

[13:29] and they could walk right in which they

[13:31] did

[13:32] whatever day it was close or not

[13:36] and one of them smiled and the other

[13:39] sort of apologized you know how it is

[13:41] being a couple

[13:43] but the idea was

[13:45] that instead of saying things

[13:48] are or aren't possible

[13:51] instead of getting so frustrated

[13:54] to be open and say oh

[13:56] i wonder what's going to happen next

[13:59] to have that spirit

[14:02] because the truth is

[14:04] that the body produces 500 sorry 100

[14:09] billion new red blood cells every day

[14:13] that's 50 000 in the time that i read

[14:16] these few sentences your body's making

[14:18] that

[14:19] there are a trillion living creatures in

[14:22] your gut and in parts of your body

[14:24] little ones that live in your eyelashes

[14:26] and your eyebrows and so forth all

[14:28] having their little bacteria virus buggy

[14:31] little life being born and dying

[14:34] you are this

[14:35] walking my friend wes calls it a walking

[14:38] feedlot for you know for this entire

[14:41] cornucopia of life

[14:45] you lose 600 000 particles of skin an

[14:48] hour and it's replaced

[14:51] in that hour

[14:53] you get a new stomach lining regrown

[14:56] every five days

[14:57] and all the major parts of your liver

[15:01] are recreated every six weeks

[15:05] your eyebrows take four months

[15:08] but who you are

[15:10] is this river of change

[15:13] that's constantly changing and opening

[15:16] and

[15:17] evolving

[15:20] and as we become wise

[15:23] we step back and see the mystery of it

[15:25] instead of how it's supposed to be

[15:28] so i had a friend who was the

[15:31] hospice director of a very big hospice

[15:34] for some years

[15:36] and one day he went in he'd been working

[15:38] with a lot of the patients who are dying

[15:42] and there was an old italian man there

[15:45] whose family kept coming in to attend to

[15:48] him his children and so forth and they

[15:50] came in one morning and they said we

[15:51] need to talk to the hospice director

[15:54] they said we have a problem a question

[15:57] our father is here it was three of the

[16:00] children

[16:01] and he's very close to dying

[16:04] but his younger brother was killed

[16:06] yesterday in a car accident

[16:10] and we don't know whether we should tell

[16:11] him because he's so close to dying

[16:13] himself maybe we'll agitate him and make

[16:16] him feel terrible maybe he was just

[16:18] leave him and let him be in that state

[16:20] of loving his brother and not knowing

[16:22] about the loss

[16:25] what should we do

[16:28] and my friend the hospice director said

[16:30] well

[16:31] let's go in and see your father

[16:33] and see how he's doing and maybe we'll

[16:36] understand better when we do that so

[16:38] here's this kind of open-minded response

[16:41] not exactly this is right or that's

[16:43] wrong

[16:45] and they went in and they sat

[16:47] with the

[16:48] father who was pretty weak but still

[16:51] conscious and could speak

[16:53] and they said we're so glad to see you

[16:55] dad and how are you you know he said i'm

[16:57] getting weaker and my time is coming

[17:00] and then he looked at them and he said

[17:02] don't you have something to tell me

[17:06] and they said

[17:07] what do you mean he said

[17:11] about my brother

[17:13] don't you know he died

[17:15] and they said well how do you know that

[17:17] he said oh i've been talking to him all

[17:20] morning

[17:24] there's a little bit of a mystery for

[17:25] you

[17:26] and i could tell you 50 more stories

[17:28] like this

[17:30] who are we

[17:33] born into this body this human

[17:35] incarnation

[17:39] who do you think you are

[17:43] so things change

[17:45] and i remember a retreat

[17:47] that was taught by michelle mcdonald she

[17:49] was teaching in east coast in our center

[17:51] in barrie

[17:54] and she also worked in a family program

[17:56] so she liked to work with little kids

[17:59] and she brought this group of little

[18:01] kids i think they were like

[18:02] kindergarteners or something

[18:04] and said let's talk about things being

[18:07] born and things dying and kids are

[18:08] interested in that

[18:11] so they talked about it some and then

[18:12] she said i'll tell you what let's let's

[18:15] learn more about it you go out in the

[18:17] woods which was around where we are and

[18:19] bring back whatever you find that's

[18:22] that's died and we'll look at it

[18:24] together

[18:25] and the kids ran out excitedly and they

[18:27] brought some dead leaves or some sticks

[18:29] and one kid found a little bit of a

[18:31] skeleton of some mouse that had died and

[18:34] it was there

[18:35] you know and somebody else the other kid

[18:37] found a bone or they found some

[18:39] something else that was dying they

[18:41] brought them all back together

[18:42] made a pile and said wow

[18:45] all these things in the forest have died

[18:48] and then she said well

[18:51] what do you think about this you know

[18:53] trying to

[18:55] understand how it looked to these

[18:57] five-year-olds

[19:00] and one of the kids said well it looks

[19:01] like everything you know in the forest

[19:05] there for a while and it dies

[19:07] and another little kid piped up and said

[19:09] yeah it's a good thing

[19:11] because if

[19:12] the trees and

[19:14] the branches and things didn't die then

[19:16] there'd be more and more and more of

[19:17] them they get so close together and then

[19:19] there'd be no room for us

[19:24] they knew

[19:26] somehow

[19:28] that change actually is the opportunity

[19:30] for something new to come

[19:33] and that death isn't something

[19:36] wrong

[19:37] it's natural as emily dickinson said

[19:42] because i did not stop for death he

[19:44] kindly stopped for me

[19:48] it's just part of incarnation so you

[19:51] might as well relax

[19:55] and become the loving awareness become

[19:57] the sky of awareness

[20:00] and see how things are changing

[20:04] but then there arises all our anxiety

[20:07] the emotions of being anxious and worry

[20:09] the stories we tell ourselves the body

[20:12] what about coven what about the stock

[20:14] market what about you know

[20:16] whatever it is that worries you what

[20:18] about family all these things

[20:21] and the mind kicks in it's trying to

[20:22] protect you from change

[20:26] the practice

[20:27] is not to resist the anxiety and the

[20:30] thoughts

[20:31] not to judge them

[20:33] but to bow and say thank you

[20:35] thank you for trying to protect me

[20:38] i'm okay just now

[20:41] and not let the voices of anxiety

[20:45] take over the heart

[20:48] you can name them oh here's worry here's

[20:50] anxiety thank you

[20:53] and then ground yourself and become part

[20:55] of the earth or feel the openness of the

[20:58] sky

[20:59] through which the birds and the clouds

[21:01] and everything come and go or the

[21:03] trees of the forest renewing itself

[21:08] and people will call me

[21:10] you know friends people i've taught over

[21:12] the years and work with i'm going into

[21:14] surgery

[21:17] my teenage

[21:19] son is dealing with addiction he's in

[21:21] trouble

[21:23] and we talk about the specifics what you

[21:25] can do how do you resource yourself how

[21:27] do you support yourself

[21:29] and then often

[21:31] i'll say make an altar

[21:34] put a little altar with a picture of

[21:36] your teenage son on it and surround

[21:39] that picture

[21:41] with

[21:42] kuan yin or buddha or

[21:45] you know whoever you value let yourself

[21:48] reflect on who carries the spirit that

[21:51] most matters to you in this world

[21:54] whether they're alive now or whether

[21:57] they're an archetypal being the buddha

[21:59] or

[22:00] mother mary

[22:04] and make a bow

[22:06] maybe light a candle

[22:08] and say to mother mary and kuan yin and

[22:10] the buddha and so forth

[22:12] will you please hold my boy

[22:20] will you hold him

[22:24] so that i don't have to worry quite so

[22:25] much

[22:32] i am traveling

[22:34] at great speed toward a star in the

[22:37] milky way

[22:39] my heart's a little fast

[22:42] otherwise everything's okay

[22:46] the voice of a poet

[22:48] with a nietzsche we step back and say

[22:51] the galaxy is turning

[22:53] things change

[22:56] and we learn the trusting heart

[23:00] the practice of sitting in meditation is

[23:03] to learn the trusting heart

[23:05] oh nobly born it says remember your true

[23:08] nature

[23:10] become the loving awareness the shift of

[23:13] identity

[23:14] from that small worried person

[23:18] to the buddha that you are

[23:20] and i see it in my cohort you know i'm

[23:23] about to turn 77. i know a lot of dead

[23:26] people

[23:27] lots of friends who are sick many people

[23:30] in my address i used to have an address

[23:31] book now it's electronic whoa half of

[23:34] them aren't

[23:35] you're in this incarnation anymore it's

[23:38] happening

[23:39] you know

[23:41] they're moving off stage

[23:44] we're in the queue so to speak

[23:48] and then there are all these new

[23:49] grandchildren

[23:51] you know and and and what follows

[23:55] just reflect for a moment because life

[23:58] is renewing itself through you around

[24:00] you you're a part of it you are life

[24:02] renewing itself even as you get ready as

[24:06] you age

[24:07] and die

[24:09] you're in the recycle process we'll talk

[24:12] more

[24:13] but here's a reflection quiet yourself

[24:18] maybe even let your eyes close

[24:23] what is changing in your life

[24:31] what are the big things that are

[24:33] changing

[24:43] and what would the wisest part of you

[24:45] say

[24:47] in response to this change

[24:51] what would the wisest part say here's

[24:53] how to hold this

[24:59] you can know

[25:01] you already do

[25:08] it makes us come more alive

[25:11] more trusting this impermanence

[25:15] i think of my

[25:16] old friend and colleague steven levine

[25:19] we taught retreats together and

[25:22] taught and practiced together and

[25:23] remember

[25:24] he would ask people you'd say

[25:26] if you only had a short time to live

[25:30] he was teaching death and dying retreats

[25:33] you would say if you only had a short

[25:34] time to live

[25:37] who would you call

[25:43] what would you say

[25:52] and why are you waiting

[25:58] this is the wisdom of impermanence of

[26:01] trust

[26:02] and living fully just where we are

[26:06] then anitra goes to dukkha

[26:11] is this complicated

[26:13] term and has a lot of meanings but

[26:15] mostly it means things are insecure and

[26:17] uncertain

[26:19] or they're also translated as suffering

[26:24] and if we look with the eyes of wisdom

[26:27] well

[26:28] all we have to do is turn on the news

[26:30] and the

[26:31] conflict

[26:33] domestic terrorism and

[26:36] buffalo and the continuing scourge of

[26:39] racism

[26:40] as if some people are

[26:42] you know better than other people or the

[26:45] kind of

[26:49] really it's kind of crazy that here's a

[26:51] little child born and what particular

[26:54] color they are are they green or brown

[26:56] or black or white or yellow or right

[26:58] what color you are determines your value

[27:02] it's kind of insane

[27:05] but the suffering from it is enormous

[27:09] this is dukkha

[27:12] just like the wars are dukkha these are

[27:14] the big ones in the news the pandemic

[27:17] the climate change

[27:20] this is your human incarnation folks

[27:22] mine too

[27:24] so the buddha under the bodhi tree

[27:28] when he attained enlightenment at the

[27:31] time of the morning star like that poem

[27:33] said

[27:35] he sat quietly for a time as the story

[27:38] is told

[27:40] and then he turned his eye his wisdom

[27:42] eye

[27:43] toward the world of living beings across

[27:46] the whole world

[27:49] and he saw beings everywhere wanting to

[27:52] be happy

[27:54] yet often doing the very thing that made

[27:56] them unhappy

[28:00] and the tears of the great heart of

[28:03] compassion rolled down his cheeks

[28:07] and it said in one of the myths or

[28:09] stories that those tears turned into

[28:11] tara

[28:12] the goddess of infinite compassion

[28:16] was born out of those tears

[28:20] but he saw

[28:21] the sufferings of the world

[28:26] and immediately that great heart of

[28:28] compassion that was also the buddha

[28:30] nature began to shine in every direction

[28:35] so to understand dukkha there are three

[28:37] kinds of dukkha

[28:40] there's anichiduka

[28:42] that is the dukkha of change

[28:45] joy and sorrow

[28:48] praise and blame

[28:50] gain and loss

[28:52] pleasure and pain fame and disrepute

[28:56] however wonderful you know that

[28:58] incredible meal and that great vacation

[29:00] and that

[29:01] sexual ecstatic experience i hope you

[29:05] had at some time and that you know

[29:08] delicious spiritual

[29:10] you

[29:11] know fantastic awakening and so forth

[29:14] there's that little voice inside that

[29:16] says god i wish this would last

[29:20] but it doesn't

[29:23] the duke of change now the good thing is

[29:26] that when things are terrible they don't

[29:28] last either

[29:31] but this is one kind of duka that

[29:33] nothing lasts

[29:35] and seeing it with the

[29:37] eyes of wisdom and the heart go okay i

[29:40] have to really get this

[29:44] you can't hold on

[29:48] the second kind of dukkha is the duka of

[29:50] pain

[29:52] physical and mental pain

[29:55] and as part of what we learn in

[29:56] meditation is to sit and your knee hurts

[29:59] and your back hurts and you're having

[30:00] physical pain and we live in a culture

[30:02] that basically wants to uh

[30:05] you know

[30:06] sell you a prescription a painkiller the

[30:09] moment you're a little uncomfortable we

[30:11] live in a culture that fears discomfort

[30:14] you have to do anything to stay

[30:16] comfortable

[30:17] good luck

[30:19] it doesn't work that way

[30:21] but when you take your seat with some

[30:23] dignity and allow the itches and the

[30:25] pleasures and the pains and the

[30:27] tightness and the release and the

[30:28] opening and then the

[30:30] energies that are stuck in the body you

[30:32] allow all of that

[30:33] there becomes this

[30:35] opening of trust of loving awareness

[30:39] and a deepening capacity expanding the

[30:41] window of tolerance

[30:43] to hold it all in compassion

[30:46] and it's physical pain yours

[30:48] sometimes it's harder when it's the

[30:50] physical pain of someone near you

[30:53] and if you haven't learned to sit with

[30:55] it you can't hold somebody else's hand

[30:57] when they're in the hospital or at an

[30:59] accident or dying

[31:00] because you don't know how to be with it

[31:03] you don't know how to rest in loving

[31:06] awareness and say yes

[31:08] this too

[31:10] and then my friend vivek morty who's the

[31:12] surgeon general of the united states

[31:15] said that

[31:17] more than half of what comes into the

[31:19] hospitals and clinics across america

[31:22] is really based on emotional pain

[31:25] and suffering

[31:26] it's not even the physical suffering

[31:29] so this is the second kind of dukkha

[31:31] physical and mental pain

[31:34] you all know it because it's part of

[31:36] incarnation we have it

[31:38] and then the third kind which is called

[31:40] sankhara duka sankara means

[31:44] all the different

[31:47] uh

[31:49] all the things that make up or arise and

[31:52] make up the

[31:54] the whole world the form of the world of

[31:57] duality

[31:59] sankara duke is just

[32:02] the nature of things

[32:05] that to have

[32:07] a globe and a

[32:09] a world and a moon and a solar system

[32:13] and galaxies and so forth

[32:14] there's light and dark

[32:17] there's birth and death

[32:22] there is unbearable beauty amazing

[32:25] beauty

[32:27] and an ocean of tears

[32:33] and the buddha said at one point

[32:36] you've been born and died so many times

[32:40] that the bones of even one person's

[32:42] incarnation piled up would be as high as

[32:44] the great mount vepula taller than

[32:47] taller than everest that's how many

[32:49] times

[32:51] you've taken incarnation now it may or

[32:53] may not be true

[32:55] but what it was pointing to is that

[32:59] built into this human life

[33:02] is this

[33:04] birth and death

[33:06] and born and dying and born and dying

[33:08] each day each moment it's what we are

[33:12] and then the text goes on did you never

[33:14] see a man or a woman

[33:17] aged bent down

[33:19] with blotched limbs

[33:22] walking with a cane

[33:24] or sick and lying in bed did you never

[33:26] see a corpse

[33:28] after their life

[33:30] energy is passed from the body and did

[33:33] the thought never happen to come to you

[33:36] oh

[33:38] this will happen to me too

[33:42] but we live in a culture that says get

[33:44] more money more power more things

[33:46] consume do travel get these installed

[33:48] which are fine

[33:50] i liked some of them too

[33:53] but the message is if you do it right

[33:57] there won't be dukkha

[34:01] i'm sorry

[34:03] i am really sorry it's not how it works

[34:06] and i know people who are very little

[34:08] who are insanely joyful and happy

[34:12] and people who literally have billions

[34:15] of dollars in anything you could buy

[34:19] and really struggle with sorrow and

[34:22] unhappiness

[34:31] i could just ask

[34:33] how many of you have duca raise your

[34:35] hand but you don't have to bother

[34:38] because we know

[34:41] but just as impermanence

[34:44] gives birth to trust when you really see

[34:47] it deeply and you realize oh

[34:49] just as things like the kids saw in that

[34:51] forest

[34:52] are dying

[34:54] it makes room for something new to be

[34:56] born you begin to trust the process of

[34:59] turning even as you sit

[35:02] and the emotions come and you make space

[35:04] and there's sadness and fear and you

[35:06] allow it and it rises in a big way and

[35:08] then if you stay with it it passes

[35:11] and there you are still the loving

[35:13] witness of it all

[35:16] so just as a nietzsche

[35:18] impermanence gifts

[35:21] is the doorway to trust

[35:24] dukkha gives birth to compassion

[35:28] they come together they make a

[35:30] courageous heart

[35:32] tiknot han was asked not so long ago

[35:35] about climate change before he died

[35:40] and he was asked this from a student

[35:43] should i sit

[35:44] and meditate and go on retreat and

[35:46] somehow purify my heart will that help

[35:48] will that make the difference is that

[35:50] what i should do

[35:51] i'm worried about climate change

[35:55] or should i go out on the barricade

[35:57] should i protest should i get

[35:58] politically involved what should i do

[36:04] and take that han got quiet and looked

[36:06] back and said

[36:10] just listen

[36:13] until you can hear the sounds

[36:15] of the earth crying

[36:20] he didn't tell the student what to do

[36:23] he just said let yourself open

[36:26] and hear and feel and listen and sense

[36:29] the truth

[36:32] your grief becomes a doorway

[36:35] as ryoka says

[36:37] if the drink is bitter then turn

[36:39] yourself into wine

[36:44] so you sit

[36:46] and you quiet the mind and open the

[36:48] heart

[36:49] and you listen till you can hear

[36:52] the sounds of the earth crying

[36:58] you know there's a story of a old rabbi

[37:01] acidic rabbi

[37:04] who used to talk about the practice of

[37:06] prayer and meditation and he always uses

[37:08] a strange phrase

[37:11] he would say when you meditate when you

[37:13] pray when you offer these prayers

[37:15] you'll recite them feel them and place

[37:18] them on your

[37:21] heart and one day a student said rabbi

[37:25] rabbi why do you always use that

[37:27] strange phrase place them on your heart

[37:31] shouldn't we putting put them in our

[37:33] heart

[37:35] and the rabbi got quiet and he said

[37:39] it's not us who can put them in the

[37:41] heart

[37:42] maybe he said it's god that puts him in

[37:44] the heart or the divine or something

[37:46] deeper than our own will

[37:49] he said our practice is to recite them

[37:53] and place them on the heart

[37:56] so that someday

[37:58] when the heart breaks

[38:00] they will fall in

[38:05] and this is how grief and dukkha becomes

[38:07] the doorway

[38:10] to compassion

[38:13] a poem for you called everyday grace

[38:16] by stella nassanovic

[38:20] it can happen like that

[38:23] meeting at the auto repair

[38:25] buying tires amidst the smell of rubber

[38:28] the grating sound of jackhammers and

[38:30] drills

[38:32] anywhere we share stories

[38:34] grace flows between us

[38:38] the tire center waiting room

[38:41] becomes a healing place

[38:43] as one speaks of her husband's heart

[38:45] valve replacement

[38:47] bed sores from complications

[38:50] a man speaks of multiple surgeries notes

[38:53] his false appearance is strong and

[38:56] healthy

[38:58] i share my sister's death from breast

[39:00] casts cancer

[39:02] her youngest only seven

[39:06] a woman rises

[39:08] gives her name mrs henry

[39:11] then takes my hand

[39:13] suddenly

[39:15] an ordinary day

[39:17] becomes holy ground

[39:22] and this is how we connect we hold hands

[39:26] there's something so innate in us when

[39:29] they're suffering you can look at

[39:30] ukraine and see all the terrible things

[39:32] but you also see nations and

[39:36] doctors without borders and world

[39:38] central kitchen and people from every

[39:41] direction pouring in their love and help

[39:44] and support

[39:46] that is also us

[39:49] it brings us the deepest compassion

[39:53] impermanence yes

[39:56] dukkha

[39:57] part of this incarnation it's here baby

[40:01] it is us

[40:03] and yet

[40:04] it connects us in compassion and love it

[40:08] does

[40:09] so quiet and close your eyes again for a

[40:23] moment what is calling to you

[40:29] what suffering

[40:30] what loss what difficulty

[40:34] in your life in the world

[40:38] what is calling to you and saying yes

[40:40] don't avert your gaze

[40:46] let your heart open

[40:48] see

[40:49] feel

[40:58] and then what courage

[41:00] is asked of you

[41:04] you can know

[41:21] yes when compassion arises

[41:24] compassion is a verb it also says

[41:27] i must i will i find a way to make a

[41:30] difference

[41:35] now tiknot han from the mahayana

[41:37] tradition of vietnam teaches these three

[41:41] characteristics he calls him the three

[41:42] seals

[41:44] and instead of teaching dukkha he

[41:45] teaches nirvana

[41:48] because

[41:50] knowing dukkha is the gateway

[41:52] to nirvana to freedom or peace

[41:56] as zen master suzuki roshi who founded

[41:58] san francisco's end center

[42:01] said when you realize the fact that

[42:04] everything changes so now we're going

[42:06] back to anita

[42:08] and loss in dukkha when you realize the

[42:10] fact that everything changes

[42:13] and find your composure in it there you

[42:17] find yourself

[42:18] in nirvana

[42:22] nirvana isn't someplace else

[42:26] it is the freedom and the peace that's

[42:28] available to you

[42:31] with a quiet mind

[42:33] and an open heart

[42:36] when you become the loving witness of it

[42:38] all

[42:40] and then pain is inevitable

[42:45] but suffering is not

[42:49] you can rest in loving awareness and joy

[42:53] we can get so loyal to our suffering

[42:56] and forget that joy that joy i

[42:59] like to talk about of the books of the

[43:01] dalai lama and

[43:02] archbishop tutu laughing and joking the

[43:05] book of joy

[43:09] so dukkha gives birth to the great heart

[43:11] of compassion

[43:13] and then the last of three's three is

[43:16] anata

[43:19] which is translated as sometimes

[43:21] shunyatu is emptiness no self no

[43:24] separate self this is the hardest one to

[43:26] understand but you could sort of feel it

[43:28] when we were meditating together and i

[43:30] said now who are you toward the end look

[43:34] and you look and you don't find yourself

[43:39] there's the sensations and thoughts and

[43:40] experiences

[43:41] and there is awareness but it's not your

[43:44] awareness

[43:46] in fact you're not even there exactly

[43:48] there's just awareness itself

[43:52] nothing separate

[43:55] wes niskar my colleague and friend at

[43:58] spirit rock puts it this way he's a

[44:00] humorist as well he said here's the

[44:02] three characteristics

[44:04] life's hard

[44:06] it'll put you through changes don't take

[44:08] it personally

[44:11] and this is the third

[44:12] hanata that it's not yours

[44:15] the profound reality

[44:18] the invitation to step out of the

[44:20] fiction of separateness

[44:22] what's called the small sense of self or

[44:25] the body of fear

[44:29] where we get frightened or selfish or

[44:32] self-centered or cut off all of those

[44:34] things

[44:35] alice walker wrote one day

[44:38] when i was sitting there like a

[44:40] motherless child which i was it come to

[44:42] me

[44:43] that feeling of being a part of

[44:45] everything

[44:46] and i knew

[44:47] if i cut a tree my arm would bleed

[44:51] i laugh and i cry and i run all around

[44:53] the house

[44:54] when it happens you just can't miss it

[44:59] and we know this walking in the high

[45:01] mountains or making love or being there

[45:04] at the mystery of the birth of a child

[45:07] or the death of a human being

[45:09] silent like a falling star

[45:13] and all of a sudden we step out of the

[45:15] time-bound consciousness the

[45:17] separateness and feel ourselves part of

[45:20] the turning of the seasons of life

[45:25] you feel it on retreat you're doing

[45:27] walking meditation and all of a sudden

[45:29] you realize you're not doing it it's all

[45:31] just doing it itself

[45:34] it's amazing no self

[45:36] as one of my teachers said no self no

[45:39] problem

[45:40] more self more clinging more self

[45:43] centered more problem

[45:45] but it's like this

[45:48] when i look at my daughter

[45:51] she was born of an egg carried by her

[45:54] mother

[45:57] but the egg that was carried by her

[45:59] mother was actually there in her

[46:01] grandmother's body

[46:04] when her mother was an infant in her

[46:06] mother's womb

[46:08] the grandmother's womb carried the egg

[46:12] that became my daughter

[46:15] and then my daughter

[46:17] grows up as a woman and she has a child

[46:22] maybe she has a daughter she has a son

[46:24] now maybe she'll have a daughter we

[46:25] don't know

[46:28] who become

[46:29] a mother and grandmother and the eggs

[46:32] are there a couple of generations before

[46:34] and after we are not ourselves we are

[46:37] the whole chain of being

[46:42] and in one apple

[46:45] is the mystery of life that tree doesn't

[46:47] grow without the

[46:49] rhizomes underneath it in the forest

[46:52] floor and the

[46:53] you know the sunlight on the leaves and

[46:56] the the wind and the turning of seasons

[46:58] and the

[46:59] the the planting and the harvesting

[47:02] in an apple orchard or before that in

[47:04] the wild apples

[47:08] and the chlorophyll that turns sunlight

[47:10] into sugar now how's that for a miracle

[47:13] we live on a planet where light turns

[47:16] into sugar so you can be happy

[47:21] the biosphere the genetics of an apple

[47:24] and all of it's just happening baby this

[47:26] is

[47:28] selfless

[47:30] this is the form of life coming out of

[47:32] consciousness itself

[47:35] and expanding and opening in all these

[47:38] remarkable multitudinous ways

[47:42] and then a man came up to the buddha and

[47:44] said his name was mogarajan

[47:46] and he asked him a question three times

[47:48] when you asked three times that the

[47:50] buddha has to answer as it said

[47:53] he said tell me o blessed one you are to

[47:56] be supposed to be wise how can i live so

[47:59] that i will not be seen by the king of

[48:01] death

[48:04] and the buddha responded o mogarashan

[48:10] do not cling to anything

[48:13] as being yours alone as being self

[48:17] or i

[48:18] or

[48:19] mine

[48:20] and if you know do not cling to anything

[48:24] as self

[48:26] you will not be seen

[48:28] by the king of death

[48:32] so this is the invitation tiknot han

[48:34] talked about the seal of nirvana of

[48:36] freedom

[48:38] the timeless freedom that is who you

[48:41] really are when you don't cling to

[48:45] your body your feelings your

[48:46] relationships the things around you

[48:49] and understand when i say don't cling

[48:52] i don't mean don't care

[48:55] you know the difference you'll feel it

[48:56] in your body between attachment and love

[49:00] they're really different

[49:05] and you can live in the timeless present

[49:09] the consciousness of loving awareness

[49:11] itself

[49:13] and i remember my

[49:15] time with nisargadat this great guru in

[49:18] bombay

[49:21] where he said at one point my

[49:22] consciousness can enter into anything

[49:25] and i can feel the experience of it

[49:27] because it's all consciousness

[49:29] said when i understand when i understood

[49:35] wisdom

[49:36] sees that i am nothing

[49:39] love sees that i am everything

[49:42] and between these two my life flows

[49:48] i loved watching ramadas in the last

[49:50] years of his life because he was there

[49:51] in that wheelchair

[49:53] in a broken body where he couldn't move

[49:55] one arm and one leg where he had aphasia

[49:58] and he couldn't really speak

[50:00] fluently he

[50:02] grappled to find words he had multiple

[50:05] infections and physical traumas and bed

[50:08] sores at times and all these things

[50:11] he was about the happiest person i've

[50:13] been with ever

[50:17] really joyful

[50:19] amidst all the paralysis and aphasia

[50:23] how can you be so joyful ramnas and he

[50:26] said

[50:28] i am loving awareness i love it all

[50:32] i love it all

[50:34] the joy the sorrow the birth the death

[50:38] the spring

[50:39] and the winter

[50:45] so when you understand there comes this

[50:48] beautiful sense of freedom this is our

[50:50] incarnation

[50:52] and then from the little prince

[50:55] antoine de santa super he says

[50:58] first thing in the morning you look

[51:00] after yourself

[51:01] you brush your teeth

[51:03] and wash your face don't you

[51:06] well the second thing you must do is

[51:09] look after your planet

[51:12] it's not that complicated

[51:15] and the heart changes when we come to

[51:17] terms with change and nietzsche and

[51:20] realize oh

[51:21] we can trust that it wants to renew

[51:24] itself

[51:25] and we come to terms with dukkha and say

[51:27] yes that's part of incarnation you don't

[51:30] get out of it

[51:31] loss and change and pain and suffering

[51:35] and gain and pleasure all are woven

[51:37] together

[51:41] i don't know whether nice people tend to

[51:43] grow roses

[51:46] or whether growing roses

[51:48] makes people nice

[51:52] and i don't know the answer either

[51:55] but i do know there's a kind of joy that

[51:57] comes when we see

[51:59] with the eyes of wisdom and the great

[52:02] heart of compassion

[52:03] and trust

[52:06] oh nobly born

[52:10] remember this teaching

[52:13] for now and

[52:15] forever

[52:20] and as you know

[52:22] then you touch it spills out of you

[52:25] your joy your peace your acceptance

[52:27] your flexibility your non-rigidity your

[52:31] openness even with your own foibles like

[52:33] i do with mine and all of those things

[52:36] all held in the great heart of

[52:37] compassion

[52:40] and you become like those people in the

[52:42] tire

[52:43] store waiting room you be upon part of

[52:46] the communion of us

[52:48] of the open heart of life

[52:51] and this is possible for you

[52:54] alice walker says

[52:58] war will stop when we no longer praise

[53:01] it

[53:02] or give it any attention at all

[53:06] peace will come

[53:08] wherever it is sincerely invited

[53:12] love will overflow every sanctuary

[53:14] given it

[53:17] truth will grow where the fertilizer

[53:19] that nourishes it is also truth

[53:24] and trust will be its own reward

[53:28] teach yourself peace

[53:31] pass it on

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American Buddhist teacher, co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society (1976) and Spirit Rock Meditation Center (1987). Trained as a monk in the Thai Forest tradition, he has been…

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Impermanence (anicca) means that all phenomena are constantly changing and nothing remains static. This is not merely about obvious shifts like seasonal changes, but a fundamental truth: emotions arise and pass, thoughts appear and dissolve, circumstances shift instantly from stable to chaotic. Recognizing impermanence deeply, not just intellectually, brings wisdom and reduces the suffering that comes from clinging to things as if they were permanent.
Dukkha is often better understood as "unsatisfactory nature" rather than pessimistic suffering. The teaching points to the fundamental friction that arises when we try to hold onto what is impermanent or resist what is naturally arising. Recognizing dukkha is liberating because it shows you exactly where unnecessary suffering originates—in the gap between what we want reality to be and what it actually is.
Anatta (no-self) does not deny that you function as a person with memory and continuity. Rather, it points to the absence of a fixed, unchanging essence or observer separate from the five rivers of experience. Direct investigation reveals consciousness arising moment by moment without a solid "I" behind it. You still live and make choices, but you are not identified with the changing conditions as your true nature.
Yes. Pure awareness, called "the original mind" or "the one who knows," is not separate from daily life. Through practice, you learn to rest in consciousness itself while remaining engaged with relationships and responsibilities. You can be in the midst of an emotion or problem and still step back into awareness. This is not dissociation but a shift in identity from the changing contents to the knowing itself.
Direct insight can begin with any sincere moment of attention, but deepening this seeing is a gradual process that unfolds through regular meditation and mindful living. The shift typically happens through consistent practice over weeks, months, or years, as the mind quiets and the capacity to observe experience clearly develops. However, even a single moment of genuine seeing can crack open the possibility of liberation.
This teaching, emphasized by Krishnamurti and Buddhist teachers, means that liberation comes through clear seeing, not through straining or trying to force a spiritual state. When you genuinely perceive impermanence, unsatisfactory nature, and no-self, the identification and clinging that created suffering naturally loosen. You don't have to effort your way to freedom; you have to see clearly what is already true.
Begin with meditation to quiet the mind. In daily life, pause and notice impermanence: watch how your emotions shift, how circumstances change. Feel the tension that comes from grasping what is impermanent. Notice the absence of a solid self at the center—observe that you are a process, not a thing. These observations are not intellectual but direct, felt knowing that arises through patient attention.

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